Ever since I broke up with my boyfriend everyone has been telling me that I look great? I am confused for the reason I didn’t change anything about my appearance. I know that I feel a lot happier and I am not as stressed with him and me arguing all the time. One of my best friends told me that I have this glow to me.
My ex-boyfriend has been calling and texting. He wants to get back together. I feel like he is a completely different person from these past few weeks. All the mean things he said to me and now he is saying everything opposite of it. Last night he showed up at my work. He asked if I was happy to see him. I lied and said yes. I wasn’t happy to see him at all. I didn’t understand what he was doing there. He asked what I was doing Saturday for Sweetest Day. My ex was acting like when we first started dating. The other girl that I was working with said that I had this very confused and disgusted face when talking to him.
Is this a game to my ex boyfriend? Whenever we fight he act completely nice when he feels he is going to lose me. My good friend Matt has been giving me advice this whole time about my ex and my situation. He knows about every fight or argument I have had with my ex. Matt just told me to leave him alone he’s not going to change. My friend told me that from his point of view that whenever my ex feels he has lost control over me he act super nice and charming towards me but, once he feels I’m comfortable again he tries to control me and becomes very jealous. My friend Matt went through every part of my relationship with my ex and pointed out every single time my ex has used this routine over and over.
I am so grateful to have Matt as my friend. If it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be so happy right now. I am not thinking about everything I did wrong to not make the relationship not work. I am thinking about moving forward. I don’t want to spend sweetest day with my ex I don’t want to be with him anymore. I am lucky that my friend Matt has made me realize that I and a great person and that I deserve better.
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